Hospital Scare

Its been the 3rd time in 2 weeks that my granny was admitted in the hospital. Last Friday rcv a call from Sis to rush down to A&E immediately, the tone of her words already express how bad the situation was. Inform the necessary person in the office, grab my bag and rushed down to A&E. Mom called shortly after rush out of office, my first infor of the situtation was "Your ah ma might not be able to make it, quickly go to A&E now". I called HB to be on standby just in case anything happen.I were basically running all the way from Neil Rd to SGH A&E with my 3 inch heels. I have to keep controlling the tears from flowing out of the eyes. I can only pray for the best.

Paramedics and Doctor managed to regain her conscious. According to Aunt, she lost her conscious at home and body was already turning cold. Paramedics advise that BP was only 20 when they arrived. Both of my aunt keep calling her out and refuse to let her go. We were relieved when she managed to regain conscious and able to reply my DAD at the A&E. She was very very pale and condition were very unstable. We can do nothing but to wait and keep waiting for her all her blood test, XRAY result and Doctor's advise.

We only leave when she could be switch to the normal ward.

Yee Ran, tks so much for your concern. Your sms gave me a hug at such situtation.

Faceshop Shopping

HB and I were shopping ard before our movie show time. I have been looking for a liquid foundation for night use. The current one Im using is good only for normal days as it really look very natural. Im very particular abt make up esp foundation cos I dont wanna my face to look like a piece of cake. I see many girls with having 2 tones of shade after applying their foundation. Anyway Im still very satisfy with the result of the foundation. HB says its look brighter compare to my existing foundation.

Another new try was the foundation brush. Didnt know such brush existed. Hahahaha.... I have been using sponge for my liquid foundation all along. The salesgirl did a demo of how to use the brush on my hand.  I were not very keen to purchase in the first place as anything new mean slowing down my make up pace in the morning rush hour. HB was rather encouraging abt the new brush.  Im still surviving well with the brush...... heehee....

Liquid Foundation.


Liquid Foundation Brush.


Love this lip gloss shade.


We manage to over hit $60 and was given a freebie. It was a sleeping mask. Both of use find it good. Non oily, Non hassle.


Everything have a price to pay for inclusive Beauty. HB gladly paid for it.

富贵手 Part 2

Tks to all the washing and using the old brands of detergent that I bought last time.  Dish drop is the still the best but I cannot waste the detergents that I have not finish using.

Luckily my honey lotion save my hands and recover quickly.

Double Rainbow

This is the second time in my life seeing a rainbow and its a double rainbow. Not long after this double rainbow I saw another rainbow over the sky of Queenstown area. So it mark the 3rd time I saw a rainbow.

愛的相反不是恨，而是冷漠

This email was send to me by my client. The email content seriously hit me very hard. The topic itself have been running in my head for these few days.

別對親密的人潑冷水~~

愛情慢性致死之一的大兇手，就是潑冷水。(友情也是)

越熟的人越容易彼此潑冷水。

人們自然而然用來對付潑冷水的方式有兩種，

一是反潑冷水回去，

二是保持沈默，警惕自己，不再將自己快樂或得意的事告知這個人。

兩種都使雙方疏離。

有一位建築公司的高級主管對我說，他最不能忍耐的，就是他的太太有意無意的潑他冷水。當他打電話給太太說，今晚不能回家吃飯，因為公司同仁決定一起為他慶祝四十歲生日時，他這位曾是他大學同班同學的妻子馬上嗤之以鼻的說：「喔，你何德何能，為什麼人家要幫你慶生？」一句話使他滿腔熱情結成冰，心想：「早知妳這麼刻薄，下次不回家吃飯，我就不告訴妳。」其實，他的太太說的話並不表示瞧不起他，只是單純的不太會說話。

被人指責「不會說話」的人，通常很少認為那是自己的短處， 反而會沾沾自喜的認為自己很「直」，

暗暗以為是優點，如此一來，改進的可能性就很低。

我曾在百貨公司逛街時看到一對中年夫妻，太太剛從特價櫃上挑起一件衣服，先生馬上火眼金睛的大聲斥責：「醜死了，放回去！」太太一驚，馬上縮手，尷尬的眼神看著和她拿起同樣衣服的人，然後低頭遁去。我們一邊以同情的眼光看著這位太太，一邊為自己的審美品味被殃及而心有不甘。

肆無忌憚公開批評一個人穿著用品，構成的傷害和當面斥責他是白癡並沒有兩樣。親子關係亦然。

一位朋友說起她和母親的關係自小就疏遠，與小孩長大之後頂多能相敬如「冰」的原因, 就是她母親潑冷水的專長。她自小成績優秀，考第二名時，母親先問的第一句話竟是：「第一名多妳幾分？]得到第一名時後，她原以為會得到讚賞，母親卻說：「成績好沒什麼了不起，女孩子品德最重要。」

母親生日時她將零用錢買了她覺得很漂亮的生日禮物，母親卻覺得浪費錢要她拿回去換，他嘟著嘴抗議「好心給雷擊」，母親卻說：「沒揍妳已經很好。」甚至當她長大成人後和母親一起買衣服，站在試穿鏡前，母親也在她背後「讚賞」她「沒想到妳全身上下，就這雙小腿長得還可以。」

挑剔鬼、潑冷水、沒建設性的話可不能辯稱是「忠言逆耳」，說者不見得開心，聽者更是大大的傷心。

人非鋼鐵，愛一個人能承受幾次傷心？

張愛玲曾說：愛的相反不是恨，而是冷漠...

有空看信的好處是可以『增廣見聞』
穫取你平凡的生活不會去想的東西

沒空 看信也是一種幸福、它代表你有比看信更重要的事忙著

Boy Boy

After watching Marley and Me, I was rather inspired to write more abt my dogs.

Boy Boy was my dad's guard dog at the shop house but he is now officially retiring at our home. Due to his guard dog nature, he tends to be aggressive. I seriously witness how aggressive he can get, the wound left on the groomer thigh was no joke. I met him 10 yrs ago when he was a puppy, he stay with us a few mth and he got too big to stay with us, hence Dad bought him back to shop house. On our 2nd meeting, he greet me with growling. Nevertheless I still manage to be able to bath, detick and walk him.

He gone thru all the puppy training, Im amazed how much a 10 yr dog can learn. He doesnt understand a single command and we were busy cleaning his pee and poo everyday. Today he is 70% toilet train, 100% outdoor train, know sit command, know how to shake paw and walk well on leash. He got used to our house rules rather quickly and is more well behaved than Oreo.

The aggressive dog we know was gone, he is a gentle and obedient boy.  Everyone comment he is a cute boy!!! I personally find him a very expressional dog.







Taken during his daily walk, he was wondering how come HB stop and start taking pictures.




This was taken during his first outing with us. See how happy he is.

时间可不可以停留

Today I went to Tanjong Pagar Hawker Centre for lunch, as I were queuing up to purchase my lunch, I saw a mid 40s lady sitting by the seat beside the queue. What caught my attention of me was that she was busy talking away while clipping her messy hair. I ponder for a moment. Being in my early 20s, I asked myself will I be like that lady. Figure out of shape, not bothered to dress up, goes to work with messy hair. My guess for that lady was, she probably gave birth and lost her slim figure. Maybe all the hardship that she went thru to raise her children makes her forget abt herself. Maybe she was once a dead gorgeous lady.

Suddenly, I have a lot of question to myself. Why cant we age w/o growing old? Why cant we give birth w/o growing fat? Why cant we always stay pretty? 人家说青春是女人的本钱, 没了青春的女人就没有本钱吗? 老天很不公平, 男人四十是条龙, 女人四十却…... 不过我要承认成熟的男人是很有魅力的.

我很享受现在的我, 时间可不可以停留?