Today Catch - In Life Attitude Is Everything

I heard this sentence from a friend of mine when he was telling me his DAD stick a note with this sentence written after not seeing him for weeks.

I merely laugh it off when he told me abt it. I guess his DAD was probably mad tt he didnt see his own flesh and blood for WEEKS.

This sentence suddenly pop in my mind minutes ago. I have to agree with my friend's DAD on this sentence. Attitude control one thinking, actions and words. Or should I say everything! Just like if u think you will be forgiven with every single mistake u make, u will only continue to make more mistakes in life.

Last time my world only spin ard me. I thought I was the coolest person on earth and I do not need anyone in this world. I were so blind tt I didnt realise classmates walk past me. Tt becos I used to be a very self centred person. I can criticiseanyone I deem fit. In poly, I were one of the coolest girl in class.  I alway ask what would get in rtn before I give. 

There was once a classmate saw me on the MRT but she didnt dare to come close and say HI. During our break time, she found me talking to my besties jokingly then she came to tell me abt the incident. Oh well, she says I look as if I would kill if anyone come close. I didnt know my action would cause someone in such threatening moment. I feel bad, as she is a bubbly person, alway hoping here and there. To make such a person feel so threaten, my face must have really been black.

Many years after this situation, many things happen. Many pple behaviour make me another person. My hkg friend once told me that my smile is very beautiful. I realise tt if a happy person tend to have a happy "emotion" hanging on the face. I realise alot of pple pay attention to my behaviour and etc. No one deserve my black face, no one deserve my critics, no deserve to get flare at just becos I wasnt very happy tt day or maybe I thought I was cool at it. I learn to be self responsible abt my own emotion and action. 

My mom once told me tt 你有时候说话真的很过分. Yes I admit this mistake of mine. I pass critics like as if I were the only right person on earth. I realise I were wrong to judge, a pot shouldnt be calling a kettle black. I learn to reserve myself, a coin alway have 2 side. How sure am I tt I knew the whole story.

Anyway its always better to realise my mistake and become a better person than to continue rotting.

A successful person has more to give than to have.

Confucius say, What you dont wish upon yourself extend not to others.

今天心情之 / Today Catch

From today onwards, Im going to start capturing some thoughts into my blog under title "今天心情之 / Today Catch". It might be something tt happen 10 yrs ago or something that is very recent.

I'll also blog more in Chinese in order to improve my Chinese. I seriously sux big time in Chinese writting. At times I even stumble over what word to use on a casual talk. If you found any error in my Chinese, pls feel free to point it out so I can learn from my mistake.

Hong Kong Day 2 - 买东西吃东西~买东西吃东西

We spend the whole of Day 2 shopping. I met up with my friend in Hong Kong, Tracy, at abt 1230pm, we end our day close to 1130pm. Eating and spending is on the top agenda!!! Tracy show us ard on good place for shopping and dinning.

Yau Ma Tei is the nearest MTR station to our hotel, its just less than 5 mins walk.


Woman Street. Bargaining is nvr my favourite when it come to shopping. Tt why BKK shopping nvr interest me.


Tracy and Me


@Causeway Bay aka Singapore Orchard Rd






Dog's Slave!!! Even go holiday also must drop by their biggest pet shop and buy something back.


At night we went to Avenue of Star












According to Tracy, this used to be a tram station but had stop operation. This Big clock is here for remembrance.

Hong Kong Day 1

Our flight were 8am in the morning, check in at 6am, Dad came to fetch us to the airport at 5am and tt mean we woke up at 4am!!! We reached Hong Kong at abt 12pm, check in to our mini size hotel, unpacked and left for Victoria Peak.

Basically Hong Kong is very accessible by MTR, throughout our whole journey MTR was our main transport.

Taking MTR to 中环


Hong Kong also have the electronic station display board.


古惑女之只手遮天. Muhahaha


Taking tram up the Peak


First stop was Madame Tussauds Wax Muesum.
Jay Zhou


Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt


如果他是我老爸..... 其实我老爸也不错, 老是七早八早出国, 都是老爸接送.


If u need to study very hard for science, its all becos of him. E=MC2!!! Einstein!!!


Andy Lau


David Beckham


Saddam Hussein


Do I look like one of the wax statue? haha!!!


After the wax museum, we went up the highest of the peak to view Hong Kong's night scenery. During our airport transfer the guide say tt Hong Kong spend HKD 3 million per night on the lighting.






I took too many photos this trip, the rest of the picture u may view from the album.

Give me a plain Jane any day

I refer to the column I read on 16/04/2009 'my paper', Give me a plain Jane any day - ON THE S FACTORS GORGEOUS GIRLS.

Writer, Mr Chong Chee Kin, wrote a fantastic column on the recent TV show, S Factor. When I first saw the advertisement the first thing tt come to my mind is that how lowly these girls are. The writer share my sentiments on this show. I would say most of the guys would love this show and disagree with me, or probably say Im a sour grape. Oh well I'll nvr be jealous abt woman w/o brains and "selling" their body for $$$. To me woman w/o brains are call bimbos.

I agree that such show are soft porn and are an great insult to woman. 我猜我猜我猜我猜猜猜 featured pretty girls on show but are so much well done compared to our lowly S Factors and Singapore grid girls. I guess Singapore TV show still have a long way to go.

I admire man like Mr Chong Chee Kin, who aint some plain shallow man who goes after woman body and look. A woman with brains and inner beauty are so much better well off than bimbos. 如过我还没嫁肯定嫁给你.  Man like this are endangered species on earth.

Dear God, pls send more of such great man to earth and get rid of those shallow ones.

Just Back!!!

I just came back from the Pearl of Orient. I'll try to edit the photos asap so that I can update my blog. So stay tune!!!

Updates on Granny

Granny went for a heart scan on Tuesday, to confirm whether there were blocked arteries. The Doctor already confirmed that she has blocked arteries, is just a matter of how many arteries is being blocked and how badly blocked it its.

If arteries were not badly blocked, Doctor will proceed with "ballon" operation to clear the blockage. This "ballon" operation can only deduct $2000 from the medisave and the rest we have to upfront cash. 1st artery $2700 after deducting medisave, follow by $1800 per artery. We were asked to prepare at least 5K or more. Actually the doctor already hint to us before going for the scan that at least 3 of her arteries were blocked. So all in sum will be 6.3K, just that doctor cant make judgement before any scan done.

The good thing of being in a big family is that, when huge amt drop from the sky we can split among each other and the amt will become small to individual. Anyway Granny is blessed with children and grandchildren who have earning power. We can afford to have an aunt who work on ad hoc basis and able to take care of granny on full time basis. 有这样的福气我相信是奶奶自己修回来的.

The scan result was not good, 3 major arteries were 95% blocked. Due to the blockage area, Doctor couldnt  proceed with "ballon" operation. Doctor advise by-pass operation is the solution to her condition.

Doctor will advise us on the risk and we will need to discuss whether to let her go ahead with the operation. It is not a joking matter to put a 73 years old thru a surgery.

Today she went for another scan for her heart. Oh well there will be a voting going on soon.