On Tuesday morning, I wake up with severe migraine. What a way to start the day. The headache still lingering till today. The headache worsen the stress Im having at work. Already so much things to be done and the headache just stop my brain from working. At last when the day finish, I went home and rest.
Quiet environment is the best cure for my migraine. After I finish walking the 2 dogs, I doze off after watching the TV on the sofa. Some how the migraine went off. The dogs will not bother me, they just meddle with themselves after they finish their daily walk. Home was extra quiet that night, the napping on the sofa eventually ease my migraine.
Chinese sensei always say my headache are due to my sinus and stress. He always share with me on knowledge on handling stress to prevent myself from getting so worked up.
Sometimes, I wonder why is it so tough to obtain a peaceful environment. Why some pple just like to have big reaction over small problem? So what if the dog barks, as long as they are being controlled, whats the fuss over it? Some pple like to kick a big fuss over minor problem found in job be it customer or etc.
How I hope everyday was Tuesday, where environment was quiet and peaceful.
February 26, 2009
February 23, 2009
Personality Part 1
I took a personality test, result as below. I would say its quite true. Those in red describe me well.
Summary of Realists
Loyal and steady workers who meet deadlines
Believe in established rules and respect facts
Think of themselves as mature, stable and conscientious
May appear too logical or tough-minded and forget their impact on other people
More about Realists
Realists are loyal to the people around them and work hard to keep their promises. They are honest and straightforward with others and expect the same in return. Realists believe in standard procedures and will only support change when there is a demonstrable benefit.
Realists respect factual information, which they store up to use when making decisions. This group likes to have time to think quietly and carefully before taking action.
These extremely productive people like to be occupied in their leisure time with pursuits such as craftwork, hiking or reading.
In situations where they can't use their talents or are unappreciated, Realists may become obsessed with schedules, critical of others or have trouble trusting other people to get the job done properly. Under extreme stress, Realists may complain loudly that events have taken a turn for the worse and predict negative outcomes.
Realists typically only share their opinions or personal experiences with trusted friends.
Realist Careers
Realists are attracted to jobs where decision making based on factual knowledge and experience is required.
Summary of Realists
Loyal and steady workers who meet deadlines
Believe in established rules and respect facts
Think of themselves as mature, stable and conscientious
May appear too logical or tough-minded and forget their impact on other people
More about Realists
Realists are loyal to the people around them and work hard to keep their promises. They are honest and straightforward with others and expect the same in return. Realists believe in standard procedures and will only support change when there is a demonstrable benefit.
Realists respect factual information, which they store up to use when making decisions. This group likes to have time to think quietly and carefully before taking action.
These extremely productive people like to be occupied in their leisure time with pursuits such as craftwork, hiking or reading.
In situations where they can't use their talents or are unappreciated, Realists may become obsessed with schedules, critical of others or have trouble trusting other people to get the job done properly. Under extreme stress, Realists may complain loudly that events have taken a turn for the worse and predict negative outcomes.
Realists typically only share their opinions or personal experiences with trusted friends.
Realist Careers
Realists are attracted to jobs where decision making based on factual knowledge and experience is required.
February 22, 2009
Nephew and Niece
Rey and Faith are brothers and sisters. They are my nephew and niece so dear!!!!
Although Rey is mischievous but he still can be disciplined. He is so intelligent, learn things fast and talk well. There was once, I left their place, at the gate he told me "Ah Girl YiYi be careful okay." The sentence was so sweet. A little 3 yr old boy know how to show concern to others. He loves HB very much. HB shower him with lots of toys and attention whenever we are with him. He never fail to greet us. Sometimes certain things he say can seriously amaze us.
Faith is so adorable. Whenever she see me she will smile at me. She like to talk a lot, though its baby language, its so interesting communicating with her. She isn't those baby who cry non stop. She already know how to flip and crawl by herself. The other day I saw her playing on the bed all by herself, she was laughing away and when she saw me she just show me her hands asking me to carry her. I just love her to bits.
Basically I like kids who are well mannered. You can call me bias or whatsoever. I just hate kids who love to throw tantrum, cry non stop, cannot be discipline. I ever met a little girl when her parent ask her to greet me, she roll her eyes at me. How to dote on kids like that?
Rey
Faith (Look exactly like the brother!!)
Although Rey is mischievous but he still can be disciplined. He is so intelligent, learn things fast and talk well. There was once, I left their place, at the gate he told me "Ah Girl YiYi be careful okay." The sentence was so sweet. A little 3 yr old boy know how to show concern to others. He loves HB very much. HB shower him with lots of toys and attention whenever we are with him. He never fail to greet us. Sometimes certain things he say can seriously amaze us.
Faith is so adorable. Whenever she see me she will smile at me. She like to talk a lot, though its baby language, its so interesting communicating with her. She isn't those baby who cry non stop. She already know how to flip and crawl by herself. The other day I saw her playing on the bed all by herself, she was laughing away and when she saw me she just show me her hands asking me to carry her. I just love her to bits.
Basically I like kids who are well mannered. You can call me bias or whatsoever. I just hate kids who love to throw tantrum, cry non stop, cannot be discipline. I ever met a little girl when her parent ask her to greet me, she roll her eyes at me. How to dote on kids like that?
Rey
Faith (Look exactly like the brother!!)
伯乐-林宥嘉
Im so in love with this song. The MTV is so touching.
爱你的那一个伤你的那一个
谁才是你爱情中的伯乐
放弃了这一个然后等待着下一个
最后哪一个让你最舍不得
感谢不能让别人来说
你给过我的她们是做不到的
那时候的幸福是真的虽然过去了
我们也都经历了
释怀教育着仇恨和平劝着天下人
故事发生便住下了不管好的坏的
你让我成长了就算是痛得值得
爱你的那一个伤你的那一个
谁才是你爱情中的伯乐
放弃了这一个然后等待着下一个
一个个过客过得快不快乐
爱你的那一个伤你的那一个
谁才是你爱情中的伯乐
放弃了这一个然后等待着下一个
别太多过客祝你早日快乐
离开时别忘了看看眼前的人
流泪记住了还是微笑祝福着
爱你的那一个伤你的那一个
谁才是你爱情中的伯乐
放弃了这一个然后等待着下一个
最后哪一个让你最舍不得
感谢不能让别人来说
你给过我的她们是做不到的
那时候的幸福是真的虽然过去了
我们也都经历了
释怀教育着仇恨和平劝着天下人
故事发生便住下了不管好的坏的
你让我成长了就算是痛得值得
爱你的那一个伤你的那一个
谁才是你爱情中的伯乐
放弃了这一个然后等待着下一个
一个个过客过得快不快乐
爱你的那一个伤你的那一个
谁才是你爱情中的伯乐
放弃了这一个然后等待着下一个
别太多过客祝你早日快乐
离开时别忘了看看眼前的人
流泪记住了还是微笑祝福着
February 16, 2009
Neighbours
Ever since we shifted in during end of 2007, our immediate neighbours have been on good term with us. Although we rarely talk to them, but we do greet each other with a smile or a simple greeting whenever we meet.
Despite having 2 dogs, they did not show any displease with us. We as responsible dog owner do our part to prevent our dogs from being nusiance to our neighbours. Even the Malay uncle staying below us is kind to our dogs.
All were well except the family staying right above us. Every Saturday the children together with MANY grandchildren of the old lady come back for gathering. I do understand big family tend to have more kids and such weekly gathering as family are sweet. Just like my maternal family, we are big families who rtn on weekend for gathering.
But when such gathering become another family woes, and tt family who is suffering is me!!! Back then before we officially move in, we already heard kids running and screaming ard, as we didnt stay long in the house we just put it behind our back. We didnt realise that such screaming, running, jumping was a weekly affairs.
Basically, every Saturday, we hear loud thumping sound from above and kids screaming on top of their voices. We went up a few times and spoke to them nicely to ask them to mellow their kids down.
Last Saturday was superb, I heard my room light trembling!!!! As my light have a metal frame surrounding the glass panel, the metal frame trembling sound was obvious. In the past we only hear loud thumping sound and kids screaming. Now even my light is trembling!!! Things got really from bad to worse.
As usual, HB went up to ask them to mellow their kids down. One of the father of kids actually started flaring at HB. The mothers of the kids also join in arguement. How come we went up to tell you nicely to mellow down the kids but in the end we got 3 adults shouting against 1? Initally I didnt went up when HB went up to tell them nicely abt our situation, after a while HB didnt came down, I knew something went wrong. I head up to tk a look, to my shock all the 3 of them were screaming at HB.
HB nvr in my life pick a arguement with others, he might be unhappy abt situation but he will nvr pick a quarrel and chose to leave the situtation.
I went up to them and hear what they had to say. Its was really tough when 3 of them yelling at the same time. They even threaten us to call police and lodge complain report to authority. I would have done that early on if I dont care abt the neighbour relationship. Cos I nvr believe in resorting to such extreme unkind acts and spoil the neighbour relationship.
They accuse HB saying that we have a baby resting below, and many times we told them we dont have a baby below. But they insisted HB say that. I believe its due to 3 of them screaming at the same time and mis heard HB words.
We also tell them many times, that Saturday is our rest day. Everyone work from Mon to Fri and need a break on Saturday at home to get sufficent rest. Our rest at home nvr seem at peace with the thumping sound. Our home seem like going thru earthquake every Saturday.
Were our request unreasonable? We merely request ur kids not to jump ard. We can tolerate occasional noise but not to the extend when my light is trembling.
They insisted that their kids did not jump. Oh well HB caught the little girl admit that she was jumping in the room just now. The boy was all drenched with sweats. How can ur kids be drenched with sweats when they merely sit down and play game boy as your say.
After a long and tiring negotitation, they finally agreed that they will not let their kids play in the master bedroom and study room. We compromise. As long as they dont get overboard on the jumping and stay away from the room, we are willing to give in.
Anyway I have not even mention the unkind words they hauled at us when we didnt even say anything sarcastic at them.
HB ask me, you think they will keep their promise? Oh well if things really get out of hands, then I will need to apologise for asking the authority to assist on such situation.
I feel so sorry for HB the other day. Poor him caught in such unkind situtation.
Despite having 2 dogs, they did not show any displease with us. We as responsible dog owner do our part to prevent our dogs from being nusiance to our neighbours. Even the Malay uncle staying below us is kind to our dogs.
All were well except the family staying right above us. Every Saturday the children together with MANY grandchildren of the old lady come back for gathering. I do understand big family tend to have more kids and such weekly gathering as family are sweet. Just like my maternal family, we are big families who rtn on weekend for gathering.
But when such gathering become another family woes, and tt family who is suffering is me!!! Back then before we officially move in, we already heard kids running and screaming ard, as we didnt stay long in the house we just put it behind our back. We didnt realise that such screaming, running, jumping was a weekly affairs.
Basically, every Saturday, we hear loud thumping sound from above and kids screaming on top of their voices. We went up a few times and spoke to them nicely to ask them to mellow their kids down.
Last Saturday was superb, I heard my room light trembling!!!! As my light have a metal frame surrounding the glass panel, the metal frame trembling sound was obvious. In the past we only hear loud thumping sound and kids screaming. Now even my light is trembling!!! Things got really from bad to worse.
As usual, HB went up to ask them to mellow their kids down. One of the father of kids actually started flaring at HB. The mothers of the kids also join in arguement. How come we went up to tell you nicely to mellow down the kids but in the end we got 3 adults shouting against 1? Initally I didnt went up when HB went up to tell them nicely abt our situation, after a while HB didnt came down, I knew something went wrong. I head up to tk a look, to my shock all the 3 of them were screaming at HB.
HB nvr in my life pick a arguement with others, he might be unhappy abt situation but he will nvr pick a quarrel and chose to leave the situtation.
I went up to them and hear what they had to say. Its was really tough when 3 of them yelling at the same time. They even threaten us to call police and lodge complain report to authority. I would have done that early on if I dont care abt the neighbour relationship. Cos I nvr believe in resorting to such extreme unkind acts and spoil the neighbour relationship.
They accuse HB saying that we have a baby resting below, and many times we told them we dont have a baby below. But they insisted HB say that. I believe its due to 3 of them screaming at the same time and mis heard HB words.
We also tell them many times, that Saturday is our rest day. Everyone work from Mon to Fri and need a break on Saturday at home to get sufficent rest. Our rest at home nvr seem at peace with the thumping sound. Our home seem like going thru earthquake every Saturday.
Were our request unreasonable? We merely request ur kids not to jump ard. We can tolerate occasional noise but not to the extend when my light is trembling.
They insisted that their kids did not jump. Oh well HB caught the little girl admit that she was jumping in the room just now. The boy was all drenched with sweats. How can ur kids be drenched with sweats when they merely sit down and play game boy as your say.
After a long and tiring negotitation, they finally agreed that they will not let their kids play in the master bedroom and study room. We compromise. As long as they dont get overboard on the jumping and stay away from the room, we are willing to give in.
Anyway I have not even mention the unkind words they hauled at us when we didnt even say anything sarcastic at them.
HB ask me, you think they will keep their promise? Oh well if things really get out of hands, then I will need to apologise for asking the authority to assist on such situation.
I feel so sorry for HB the other day. Poor him caught in such unkind situtation.
24th Bday
One year older, one year wiser.
In fact on 16/01, my colleagues already pre celebrated my bday with me in the office. They were kind enough to buy me my favourite chocolate bday cake. Tks Pretties and Handsome!!!
Hb and I went out for dinner on 18/01. I also rcv many blessing smses from friends and families. You guys are the greatest pple on earth!!!!
How can we go w/o bday pressie on bday. This year pressie is real ex, fill with sincerity and come almost unexpected.
Gold chain from Dad. Cost abt $500+++ The chain and pendant is so thick and heavy.
Pendant and Bracelet from Mom & Sister. Cost abt $300+++ They bought it from SK.
Voucher from my besties YL. Although is only $20, but its already a lot to her. This voucher is filled with sincerity and this friend of mine really know what I like.
E-Spirit Watch from HB. I chose a lover watch as HB need a watch as his old watch was sent for repair.
Tks for all your love, pressies and blessing.
In fact on 16/01, my colleagues already pre celebrated my bday with me in the office. They were kind enough to buy me my favourite chocolate bday cake. Tks Pretties and Handsome!!!
Hb and I went out for dinner on 18/01. I also rcv many blessing smses from friends and families. You guys are the greatest pple on earth!!!!
How can we go w/o bday pressie on bday. This year pressie is real ex, fill with sincerity and come almost unexpected.
Gold chain from Dad. Cost abt $500+++ The chain and pendant is so thick and heavy.
Pendant and Bracelet from Mom & Sister. Cost abt $300+++ They bought it from SK.
Voucher from my besties YL. Although is only $20, but its already a lot to her. This voucher is filled with sincerity and this friend of mine really know what I like.
E-Spirit Watch from HB. I chose a lover watch as HB need a watch as his old watch was sent for repair.
Tks for all your love, pressies and blessing.
February 12, 2009
Jokes
Sometimes in life we just need to laugh things off.
Joke 1
Friend: Heard that your elder brother and younger brother are moving into your place.
Me: Oh is it???
Joke 2
Friend: I KNOW that your elder brother and younger brother is moving out of your place and shifting to your sister place.
Me: Just only get to know the very day I meet this friend.
Joke 3
Family member in Batam: Your Hubby is coming to Batam.
Me: Oh is it? Hubby didn’t tell ANYONE in Singapore.
When jokes are sad……… How pathetic………….
Family member used here are not the real pple Im refering to. Im using as illustration on the situation.
Joke 1
Friend: Heard that your elder brother and younger brother are moving into your place.
Me: Oh is it???
Joke 2
Friend: I KNOW that your elder brother and younger brother is moving out of your place and shifting to your sister place.
Me: Just only get to know the very day I meet this friend.
Joke 3
Family member in Batam: Your Hubby is coming to Batam.
Me: Oh is it? Hubby didn’t tell ANYONE in Singapore.
When jokes are sad……… How pathetic………….
Family member used here are not the real pple Im refering to. Im using as illustration on the situation.
February 7, 2009
农历新年之开心悟语
过年嘛,家人,朋友和同事聚在一起谈谈天也是很快乐. 今年和往年一样大年初一到奶奶和外婆家和亲戚拜年. 见到外婆开朗多了我也为她高兴. 其实人不需要很多钱很有面子才开心. 想奶奶一样她只要儿孙平安,健康,大家在一起和睦相处,她就很开心. 希望外婆和奶奶一样往后的日子会更开心.
今年也到了JC家去,还去了两次!!! 第一次是去赌博和捞鱼生!!! 小赌宜情可不能大赌喔!!! 二十一点输了二十块!!! 捞鱼生也捞得很开心,大家忙着枪鱼片,捞鱼生时捞到地上都是. 第二次到她家去吃火锅和捞鱼生. 这次捞鱼生时BK说温柔一点. 哈哈!!! JC真的很不好意识到你家又吃又喝还把你家搞到乱七八糟.
终的来说今年过年还是开心的. 在这里也要祝福大家在新的一年,身体健康,万事如意,步步高升.
这是在外婆家拍的全家副,这次缺了大舅,大舅母和两位小表弟.
今年也到了JC家去,还去了两次!!! 第一次是去赌博和捞鱼生!!! 小赌宜情可不能大赌喔!!! 二十一点输了二十块!!! 捞鱼生也捞得很开心,大家忙着枪鱼片,捞鱼生时捞到地上都是. 第二次到她家去吃火锅和捞鱼生. 这次捞鱼生时BK说温柔一点. 哈哈!!! JC真的很不好意识到你家又吃又喝还把你家搞到乱七八糟.
终的来说今年过年还是开心的. 在这里也要祝福大家在新的一年,身体健康,万事如意,步步高升.
这是在外婆家拍的全家副,这次缺了大舅,大舅母和两位小表弟.
February 2, 2009
农历新年之白痴悟语
一种米养百种人. 天下的白痴何其多. 过年嘛大家都希望拿红包,偏偏就有白痴当你分红包给他时不说谢谢还在那里啰说个不停. 红包给你就拿, 也不用你对我说些吉祥话. 拿个红包真的那么难吗?
当你回老婆娘家时拜年,是站在一旁看着人家拜年吗? 知道你家有钱也不需要摆张脸站在一个角落. 有些人嫁入了"豪门"把亲戚都忘了. 也不能怪人家,之能叹咱们家不够人家的婆家富裕. 所以咯人家都不看我们多一眼, 有钱人嘛高高在上连眼睛都是长在头顶上.
老妈说的对, 人家不会跟我们拜年, 那么红包就省起来!!!
当你回老婆娘家时拜年,是站在一旁看着人家拜年吗? 知道你家有钱也不需要摆张脸站在一个角落. 有些人嫁入了"豪门"把亲戚都忘了. 也不能怪人家,之能叹咱们家不够人家的婆家富裕. 所以咯人家都不看我们多一眼, 有钱人嘛高高在上连眼睛都是长在头顶上.
老妈说的对, 人家不会跟我们拜年, 那么红包就省起来!!!
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