I didnt slp well....

I was on MSN with a few friends and cousin last night, were on a topic abt insensitive comments.

After logging off, I head for my bed but cant get to slp after tossing and turning. I thought it was becos of the afternoon nap I took. Apparently I was wrong.......

I told HB I couldnt slp, he turn off the computer and started chatting with me. I was telling him I heard something very hurtful in office on Friday. He told me not to tk it to heart and dont bother abt it too much. After talking for a while I was hungry and went to have a bowl of noodles, thought I would be able to slp well after a full stomach.......... I did slp for a while but woke up after dreaming of my aunt very badly injured face when she got into an accident abt 14 yrs ago.........

I woke up at 7plus in the morning as I didnt went into deep slp. This morning I went to market with a half dead soul, and ask myself what did I do these to myself? Tt someone who said tt probably had a good slp last night, why did I punish myself for someone insensitive comment? 不开心还真的是知己找的.

Anyway a mother ever commented, "aiyo worse than a pregnant woman", right at my face................ Anyway tt sentence I heard on Friday was 100 times worse than this comment. Maybe its wasnt so much of insensitive comment but a kind of discrimination????

We are all out to make a living only, why make things difficult for each other?

I didnt saw her....

Today I met a kind soul on the train, I boarded the train from Outram as usual, initially I were standing close to the door after reaching Redhill I manage to move in and stand in front of the 2 priority seat. If we do have pple who are kind enough to give up their seats to me, there will be the opposite.

A lady was sitting on the first P.seat while the man on the second. They look like they are in their 30s and are most probably office executives. They simply turn a blind eye. When they saw me and I were hugging my tummy. After a while this Chinese man (in the 40s) who were standing beside me saw tt no one offer the seats to me. He asked me which stop am I getting down and I told him BB station. To my shock, he went to ask the man sitting on the 2nd p.seat to give up his seat for me as Im going to have a long journey.

The woman on the 1st p.seat get up after this kind soul asked for the seat, well guessed she felt embarrassed. I Thank the Man who asked the seat for me and also the woman who "gave" up the seat. This gentleman even thanks the woman and the man who in the end nvr gave up the seat for me. Oh well I guess we just have to say it out of formality sake though we know they didnt wanted to give up their seats in the first place. When the gentleman say 10q to the man, he still have the cheek to say, "np I didnt saw her". >.<"" I were standing right in front of him and yet he still can say "I didnt saw her". Well at least if he say "I didnt know she is pregnant" was a better excuse than "I didnt saw her". Well after all the hoo ha, he decided tt he should slp and save himself from more embarrassing stare.

I really felt grateful to this gentleman who bothers to ask for seats for pple like us. There are pple who give up seats but there are also a lot of ugly pple who doesnt or probably think that they dont need. They either feign slping, meddling with hp, books, newspaper or simply ignore u. I really do not know how to comment abt Singapore's graciousness, some pple say becos its very tiring after 1 whole day of work, some pple work late the day before hence they are very tired so they need the seats. We pregnant woman suffer from extreme fatigue, wake up as usual in the morning and goes to work like everyone else, on top of the daily tiredness, we are exhausted becos we have certain hormones in us tt make us feel very tired. So do we need the seats?

I hope those pple who dont give up seats for pple who more in need, apply the same standard back to themselves and do not feel upset when no one gives up the seat to you when you are old or pregnant. Dont even complain no one give up the seats to your wife or urself becos you felt tt it was right tt there is no need to give up seats to them. Good luck to all these pple. 人在做天在看.

I believe in Karma, what goes ard comes ard.

Jokes

Sometimes in life we just need to laugh things off.

Joke 1
Friend: Heard that your elder brother and younger brother are moving into your place.
Me: Oh is it???

Joke 2
Friend: I KNOW that your elder brother and younger brother is moving out of your place and shifting to your sister place.
Me: Just only get to know the very day I meet this friend.

Joke 3
Family member in Batam: Your Hubby is coming to Batam.
Me: Oh is it? Hubby didn’t tell ANYONE in Singapore.

When jokes are sad……… How pathetic………….

Family member used here are not the real pple Im refering to. Im using as illustration on the situation.

农历新年之白痴悟语

一种米养百种人. 天下的白痴何其多. 过年嘛大家都希望拿红包,偏偏就有白痴当你分红包给他时不说谢谢还在那里啰说个不停. 红包给你就拿, 也不用你对我说些吉祥话. 拿个红包真的那么难吗?

当你回老婆娘家时拜年,是站在一旁看着人家拜年吗? 知道你家有钱也不需要摆张脸站在一个角落. 有些人嫁入了"豪门"把亲戚都忘了. 也不能怪人家,之能叹咱们家不够人家的婆家富裕. 所以咯人家都不看我们多一眼, 有钱人嘛高高在上连眼睛都是长在头顶上.

老妈说的对, 人家不会跟我们拜年, 那么红包就省起来!!!

Maddest Moment

Basically outside that circle of issues, i still have emotion!!! Bloody hell, yesterday my blood was boiling at 1 million degree Celsius!!!!!

Early morning was call in to superior room.
1st question was, did anyone follow up this email. I told colly XX to follow up via email. (Tt email that I informed my colly to follow up was open at his monitor screen!!!)

Me: Oh I already forward that email to colly XX to follow up. Alphabet X-X is under her care.

Superior: I know its easy to say alphabet X-X belong to someone. Im kan chiong abt this customer becos their goods are ship spares which are urgently required. Right now, NO ONE done anything. (Looking at me) Is it so hard to just send an email to agent to pick up the cargoes.

Me: Blood Boiling away but tolerated......

Superior: (Look at me again) Our organisation is not that big, we should COMMUNICATE more, if 1 CSO is busy the other one should help to arrange. Now the thing is left undone and I have to follow up.

Im being told off for colly not doing her job. WTH!!!!! No one told me whoever is busy and need help. Who the hell am I suppose to help then? Email is not a form of communication, then WTH is it? I already extended my help is the sales quotation which is not any of my job scope.

If today I make mistake and get told off, I can take it. But not in this case. I already did my job to ask the PIC to follow up and she didnt..... I got told off!!! Where is the logic???

Of cos its easy to say alphabet X-X belong to someone, becos other colly also did it to me so easily when the new implementation started. Oh yes I wasnt the one who implement this system, why not ask that person is it easy or not.

The tone that he use who so terrible. Basically blaming me for nothing being done when I have done my part. *roll eyes*

I was so mad that I sms my bestie until I wanna break down. The degree overshoot the thermometer.